We often go through life as adults looking at our "brokenness" and " what's wrong with me that I need to fix?" Or "what do I need to correct within myself to make me a better person" or "what do I need to overcome to finally be who i want to?!" Any of this sound familiar to you?
Do you know what I find? In my sessions when I work with clients I find that I get the honor and privilege of seeing someone's true essence and the core of who they are. Who are they without their story? I often whisper in their ear to remind them of the beautiful gifts God gave them and to help them see who they came here to be. I see their pain but I also see their beauty and their truth! When they let go of all the ugly lies that have been weighing them down they start to see it too!!
It's amazing as they evolve more into their truth and let go of the big fat lies. Their life starts to transform and inside they start to believe in themselves again. And there stands the beautiful soul in a new existence living an intentional purposeful life!!
So today instead of looking at your story or all the brokenness you think you have I want you to discus in the truth of who you are!! When you feed your truth more than you feed the lies and false believes, you start living your truth more!! You see the beauty of who you really are! And when you focus more on strengthening your truths instead of fixing yourself, change just magically starts happening.
Today I want you to go to at least 5 people you know and tell them you are doing an assignment and need them to list for you all the strengths they see in you. You will see some commonalities and this is a beautiful thing rather than focusing on your weaknesses. When you get your list: First of all, embrace it and don't push away the beauty others see in you. Second of all list the top three. And lastly look at ways to develop those even stronger and become them even more because those are your gifts and your truths and you are already on the road to sharing them with the world even more without having to develop a brand new gift. These gifts can be what strengthen you in your relationships and make you excel in your career. When you use your natural gifts, people feel it! It flows!
Place that list somewhere you can see it every day and embrace the beauty of your gifts and grow from then instead of feeling like you are at ground zero and starting from scratch!
I would love for you to list some of the qualities people shared with you so please comment below.