When we want to create something in our lives we have to start with the end in mind and what I mean by that is that we need to have a vision and a picture of what that looks like. If we have a vague picture we will get vague results. For instance, I can say I want to be a singer some day and not really have any direction with it but just that I aspire to be that one day. It takes desire and effort and INTENTION to accomplish it but we can't create it until we know what we are creating. So I need to ask myself, what does that look like for me to be a singer? Am I an opera singer? Am I in a band? Do I sing solo? Am I the lead in a musical? What specifics can I look at and create? What does that picture look like and how do I feel doing it?? It's interesting that we usually tend to focus on WHAT I want to do more than HOW DO I WANT TO FEEL? Even more interesting is how we focus on what we don't want versus what we do want.
Truly underneath it all we are looking for "feeling experiences" . I may want to go to Paris and visit and see the sights but underneath it all I'm really looking for something I want to experience! How do I want to feel looking at the sites and visiting? When we look back at memories, it's usually how we felt in the experience that brings it to mind. Our feelings need to be connected to our intention. That gives them more power!!
So today sit down and envision WHAT you want to experience and HOW you want to FEEL doing it and then write it down and focus on it for 5 minutes every day. Envision and get a clear picture in your mind of what that looks like and then really feel it. Just this one thing can do wonders in creating it!!